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...so is laying down, for that matter.




Now this next one here is downright embarrassing coming from the mother's standpoint.  Lily looks like a child right out of a Wal-mart shopping cart (and really I say that with all the tender feelings of one who frequents Wal-mart often. It's just the way it is.) - stained popsicle lips, underwear only at 4:00 in the afternoon, and black feet from running bare foot all day.







These pictures can only prove one thing...summer is here and decent bedtime happens about as much as we see temperatures below 100.






I thought it was crowded then...







Look at Mr. Krabbs, the one-eyed swimming pool/sandbox now...





We could totally fit two more kids down there in front. I'm not saying we will, just that technically and spacially speaking we could...




Since my babies tend to be a little slow in coming, I figure 37 weeks isn't too early to start trying to shake things up with a long walk. Maybe a stroll across Hoover Dam in 8000 degree weather isn't exactly the most inviting of excursions, but despite the heat we had a great time.



My parents and 3 of my siblings and their families are on their way to Colorado for fun and camping. Our house was a good central meeting spot for all them to meet and caravan together. So even though we're feeling slightly put out that we can't continue on with them we were glad to be able to have everyone stop over for a 27 person lunch date at our house and a Hoover Dam adventure.


The dam is less than an hour from our house and I'm a little ashamed to say it's taken us 6 years to get over to see it. Funny how we'll drive hours to go see national parks, monuments, etc. but the cool places that are practically in our own backyard get forgotten. We've driven over it on our way to other places, but it's never been our destination. It's absolutely amazing. Breathtaking really.


I couldn't get a great picture of the dam itself since, well... we were standing on top of it. I just couldn't fit enough into the camera. This thing is massive! 726 feet tall, and it contains enough concrete to build a monument 100 feet square and 2.5 miles high!







Maggie did a report at the end of of 4th grade on Hoover Dam so it was fun for all of us to go see what we had all been learning about. She was our personal tour guide - spouting off facts she remembered from her report.


Did you know over 100 people died in its construction? Workers called "highscalers" would suspend from cables from the canyon walls to chisel away and blast out rock. When the dam was completed in 1936 it began providing electricity to Nevada, Arizona, and a huge portion of the southern half of California.


And if the dam itself isn't amazing enough, in the last year or so, a bypass bridge was built next to the dam to help alleviate all the traffic jams that would occur due to too much traffic on the small two-way highway crossing over the dam.


Look at this crazy high bridge!!!





It's 900 feet above the river! We didn't have a chance to go up on the bridge. We want to do that next. I think...if I can find a way to chain all my babies to the railings first.




Lily really wan't as miserable as she looks. She was just mad at me for picking her up for the picture. She was loving the walk and feeling oh so independent.


This next picture makes me so happy. Maggie and Claire adore their big girl cousins. If they turn out anything as sweet, kind, and good as these girls I will be forever grateful to my nieces and their incredible parents. To Mailee, Hailey, and Brenna (and Emily, who couldn't be here) you will never know how much your example means to my little girls. We love you!!





It was a little nerve wracking being at the endge of sheer cliffs with 17 kids. If only I had a nickel for everytime I heard one of the adults yell "Keep both feet on the ground!!!" Here's more of the clan... and the cute boys who took years off their parents' lives while trying to get a better view of the river at the bottom of the canyon.



We all made it out intact and no one passed out due to heat exhaustion, so I'll call the day a success.








it just looks like a big ol' happy lovefest to me.









I'm now married to a man with a fresh off the printer Master's diploma! Reas has never been afraid to jump into something crazy hard if he felt it was the best thing for our family in the long run. He has worked his toosh off for the last 4 years all in the name of seeking a higher education and being a good provider.



While Reas was in graduate school:

he continued working full-time
we bought our first house
he served in the bishopric for 2 years
we welcomed our 4th child to the mix

...all the while he maintained a 3.8 GPA.

Not to mention the sheer stress of life raising a young family, dealing with health issues in our kids, balancing family, church, work, school, renovating a needy house, enduring intense months of sickness during my 4th pregnancy (that was as much his problem as it was mine). The list could go on.

Basically, had we known what life had in store for us, I'm sure we would have easily agreed to not go back to school at that time.


I am so grateful to him. I'm not sure he will ever know how much his efforts mean to our family, but if a little old blog post dedicated to him helps tell him, than I'll do it.

One thing we both learned is that there is never really a convenient time for accomplishing anything hard. If we would have waited for the right time, he would have never started back to school. You're never going to have "enough" money. You're never going to have "enough" time. Hard things always require sacrifice, but always yield the biggest blessings.

When we were trying to make the decision whether Reas should go back to school, I remember my oldest brother telling us, "4 years is going to pass by whether he's in school or not, so you may as well just do it!" Best advice ever. If there's something you want to do, you may as well just do it now. Stop waiting for that perfect time. Chances are, there never will be a perfect time and that thing is only going to get harder to accomplish the longer you sit and do nothing about it.

Maybe it's learning a new skill, having another baby, starting that diet, tackling that huge project. Whatever it is, if it's a good worthy goal, jump in there and start doing. And besides, the sooner you start, the sooner you will accomplish it. And that's a great feeling.






Before you were conceived I wanted you.



Before you were born I loved you.



Before you were a minute old I would have died for you.



- Maureen Hawkins







Happy Mother's Day to you, Mom. And to every amazing woman

who has touched my life for good.

My personal blog patrolwoman, who will remain nameless, has informed me that my posting frequency has been inadequate of late. Apologies. Hope this is sufficient...


Maggie played "18th Century Dance" in the school talent show tonight. She did awesome - rocked the piano like a pro. I tried to get her picture as she zoomed past me, but she was so fast I got half of her. Look at that smile though. I think stardom suits her nicely.





Ty has a new brain game. Apparently he plays it whenever he's not thinking about anything else. It goes like this: he thinks of a word with really good Scrabble letters in it (because he knows all the letters' point values - insane) and then adds up how many points the word would be worth under different Scrabble scenarios...triple word, double letter, etc.


Holy cow, kid. I'd say get your nose out of the books, but dad and I are hopeful that you'll support us in our old age.




Claire wants to be an "astro-lady" when she grows up. (???) I can't be sure, but I think that's an astronaut who gets to orbit earth in style - maybe in a pink sequin spacesuit.





Lily likes cooked carrots now (yes, I'm talking about the vegetable)!








Remember that recent post about how awesome my mom is? She and my sister, and niece came to visit for a couple days. It was great! It was so fun in fact, there was no time for pictures. grrr. We did girly stuff...a movie, Golden Spoon, hitting all the thrift stores, along with Rodworks, shopping for prom shoes for my adorable niece. All those things that make men yawn or gag. Except for Golden Spoon, of course. Anyone can appreciate that.


Then to top off the incredible weekend my mom offerred to take Claire and Lily home with her for a week. WHAT?! A week! After I got over the initial guilt of shipping off half of my responsibilities to Grandma's and Papa's, I've been enjoying it. The problem is now I feel guilty admitting that I'm kind of liking it. Sometimes I hate the fact that guilt is built into a woman's DNA. It must be a girl thing because Reas isn't having a problem with this. He's just like "Hey! They're having fun with their grandparents, spending quality time, blah, blah, blah." And I'm like "I hope Lily is sleeping good, I hope Claire doesn't wet the bed, hope the girls don't destroy their house, hope they eat their veggies, hope Lily takes good naps for Grandma, hope my kids don't kill my parents, wah, wah, wah."


If I'm being completely honest though, this is the best thing that could've happenend right now. Lily and I have sort of been on rocky ground lately. Yes, I'm talking about my almost 2 year-old. I think we both needed a break from eachother. If our current relationship is any indicator of what life will be like when she's 15, things could get pretty ugly. I'm preparing myself now. She just can get kind of mean, and whiny, and demanding, and loud, but oh how I love her. Instead of rambling on about the joys of being Lily's mom, I'll let Maggie explain. I think she really says it best in not so many words. This is what she recently wrote on her blog about our angel baby.


Lily is crabby. Three words, and they're true. Trust me, you do NOT want to come live with me, even if you bring earplugs. Her favorite words are "no meeee!" And if you say, "ya, you" then she says "no meee" even louder. She screams louder than a howler monkey, at least I think so. I don't really know how loud a howler monkey howls. This is why you don't want to live with me.

Maggie, age 9



Thanks Maggie. Well said.

Now that Maggie has adequately convinced me of why it's ok to enjoy my quiet refreshing week sans preschoolers, I'm heading off to zumba...alone. Then I might take a nap. And maybe go to lunch with friends. Oh, and then take a hot bath in the middle of the day without interruptions.


No guilt (or only just a little, anyway).

If there ever was a time to buy a bag of cadbury mini eggs it would be on ultrasound day!  So I did.  And we all sat around and sorted through the bucket of 0-9 month baby BOY clothes which we haven't seen in about 6 years.  And we made just a few phone calls.  And since I happened to be at Target strolling past the baby department, I just happened to glance over in that general direction.  I was innocently walking by, and then out of nowhere this outfit flew into my basket.  Really, I had nothing to do with it. It just happened...kind of like the way this cute little guy ended up inside of me.

Isn't he perfect?!



Yes, I realize that second picture may be slightly offensive to my baby boy when he's about 13, but guess what - he's not here to stop me!  Love you, cutie boy!  Can't wait to smooch your neck in a few months.

These girls have been busy for over an hour now!  Never underestimate the value of water, a baster, a strainer, and a squirty ketchup thingy.





You would've thought I was giving them a big fudge brownie when I handed over the baster.  I think we need two of them...and turkey has nothing to do with it.




Whatever you do, don't forget the aprons.  Somehow it's the aprons that transform the whole process from a silly game into an extremely dangerous scientific experiment. Really. Try it!

I could go so many different directions with this post.

I could talk about the fact that I used a pregnancy test from Dollar Tree.

I could tell you how mad I was that all of the Christmas goody plates this year totally grossed me out.

I could mention the miracle of Christmas even happening at our house because I was totally worthless.

I could share the tales of pickles at 8AM and the day I ate a whole zucchini in one sitting.

I could write a novel about how much it freaks me out when I think about being the mother of 5...and then write its sequel about how grateful I am.

I could discuss in depth the 3 minutes with a stick and a pee cup that changed my life.

I could relate the feelings that go along with knowing we are about to max out our minivan to full capacity.

I could disclose the now insignificant detail that getting pregnant wasn't exactly on my current to-do list.

I could share my heartfelt gratitude that this time around has been a billion times better than last time thanks to a very loving mom who lives to make life better for others.

But instead of rambling on and on and on like a pregnant lady who can't stop talking about herself, let me just say...
 
We're having a baby!  and this crazy life of ours is about to get even better.

This little old blog here is suffering.  I feel it.  Everytime I sit down at the computer I think, "huh." ...and then nothing.  Not sure what it is.  Maybe the fact that Christmas is over, the festivities have ended,  it's cold outside...really cold.  It's 35 degrees right now.  WHAT the?! It's never that cold here!

Whatever the reason for my major blogging blahs, it's high time for a little excitement around here.

So, here you go. Either...

                          A.  we're moving to San Diego at the end of next semester!
                                     B.  I've got a baby baking!
                                     C.  I'm going to work - DI baby!

Go ahead.  Let the guessing begin!  All winners will get a really cool prize...I'll think of it later.

P.S. If you're already in the know here, kindly zip it.
Please : )

I realize that changing seasons is a natural behavior for lovely mother nature.  I realize that most of the U.S. was enjoying this 2 months ago.  I realize that I am such a kid at heart when it comes to big crunchy leaves covering our lawn.

Now YOU have to realize that this is Vegas.  Fall rarely leaves such an incredible mark here in the land of heat stroke and relentless UV rays.  There are so many stinkin' palm trees and cacti that we miss out on the huge amounts of colorful leaves. Truly a sad, sad thing.

BUT... 




Lucky for us, something magical has happened.  And our front yard just so happens to have the 2 BEST leaf changing trees on the block.


The kids had a day off today for parent/teacher conferences and they spent most of it doing this...





How can you possibly not smile at this fun??






Today my heart is full of love, gratitude, and sadness all mixed into one.  My Grandpa passed away last night peacefully in his home with family surrounding him on every side.  I can't say it was unexpected, but it's still a difficult thing when reality sets in.  Grandpa has left a legacy of faith in God, love for all people, and dedication to what is right and good.  He will be missed by sweet Grandma, 8 children, 36 grandchildren, and whole lot of great grandchildren.  It's no coincidence that his passing happened now, right before Thanksgiving.  He loves holidays.  He loves his family being together. I know he will be smiling down at our enormous family and he'll be happy.  I'm looking forward to being with my family this week and celebrating his life and the legacy he has left for us.  

On Saturday, just one day before he died, he was able to be in one of our church's sacred temples to witness the marriage of yet another grandson.  That night at the wedding reception, he danced one last time with Grandma.   How sweet and wonderful that he could enjoy that one last earthly experience with his wife and loved ones.

Love you, Grandpa. You are loved, and will be missed. Thank you for your incredible life and the many sacrifices you have made for your family. Until we meet again.







Last year one of our family Christmas gifts was a bucket.  Not just any bucket.  Not just the kind of bucket that as you all now know, gives me anxiety.  This was a happy bucket with $200 in it...the start of our Disneyland fund.  The older kids have been talking about Disneyland for years now, with oh, maybe a hint of bitterness in their little voices.  Saying things like, "so and so's family is going to Disneyland, and they've already been there TWICE." Or "when are we ever going to go to Disneyland?" in a way that somehow made me feel like I'd been accused of not feeding my children.  Yes, they have a way.

So Reas and I decided it was time.  Not that we don't like it ourselves or that we were intentionally avoiding it.  We were just waiting for the right time.  You know, like when there weren't too many little little kids who would be more miserable than appreciative,  time off from work and school, and let's face it, money.  I find it kind of ironic that for the cost of letting our family experience the happiest place on earth, we could buy a used car...maybe a pretty crappy one, but still a car.

We told the kids we'd go to Disneyland when our bucket was filled with enough cash to pay for 5 tickets for 2 day passes, parking, hotel for 2 nights, and gas to get there.  Needless to say, Disneyland felt like a long way off.  So, the saving began.  Pennies, dimes, dollars...everything spare went in the bucket.  Occassionally, the kids would dump it all out and count,  literally taking a good hour...plenty of time for improving their math skills (hidden perks to our plan).  They'd  then announce some pretty huge number in the hundreds thinking surely that'd be enough.  We'd say it wasn't, they'd put it all back in, and we'd keep saving.  These guys were pretty great sports about the whole thing actually.  Then, a few months into the saving we had a great surprise.  Disneyland was doing their Give a Day Get a Day program, which in the matter of 2 hours for a fun little community service project we were up 3 free tickets.  Blessings for trying to stay out of debt.

I've tried to pass on my thriftiness to my kids.  I've never hidden the fact that things cost money, that comes with hard work, and sometimes we have to make hard choices when deciding whether to spend our money or not.  They're aware of sales, checking out thriftstores first, and looking for green tags while walking down the cereal aisle.  I hope they're learning early how to be smart and that it will stay with them as they get older.

It really only took about 4 months to have our bucket bursting with more than enough to pay for our trip.  I was pretty amazed actually, how fast we could save when everyone was committed to the plan. 

Our trip was within reach, which was great, but more importantly throughout the whole process came other teaching opportunities.  One day a couple knocked on our door.  They had a story, like they all do.  Somehow they'd been stranded here without a car, not knowing anyone, and having nowhere to sleep. They asked if I had any work they could do for any kind of small payment in return.  Something about this couple was different.  My heart ached for them.  I could tell they were honest, and were truly just trying to survive while holding onto some degree of self-respect.  I let them sweep my garage and front porch.  Sweeping didn't really need to be done, but that was all I could think of for them to do.  I went inside to get money, and panicked when I realized I didn't have any cash.  The kids were home from school at the time,  so I went to them and asked how they'd feel about giving up some of their Disneyland cash to this family who needed it more then we did.  It was a pretty substantial amount of money that I was asking from them, especially considering they're kids.  I was a little worried that they'd not want to, and I'd end up having to talk them into it.  To my joy, they were excited about sharing.  It made them happy.  It made me happy.  After the couple left we talked about how it made us feel to be generous with others and how important it is to help when we can.  We talked about how Heavenly Father must be so happy that we did our best to serve his children.  It was a great moment.  I went in my room and cried a little.  Cried for that couple, but grateful that my children had the opportunity to make a choice, and grateful that they made a good one.

Later this week we're heading to Disneyland.  We've been looking forward to it for almost a year.  I'm so glad we did it this way.  It required a little sacrifice on everyone's part.  Some patience and some work.  But we can all feel good knowing it's 100% paid for and that every member of this family worked to get us there.

Pity me everyone. Please.  It's Friday night.  The kids are sleeping soundly...a most happy time of the day.  I love a good Friday night...maybe a movie...icecream of course.  Generally speaking, I never make it to the end of the movie without falling asleep, but I get to fall asleep with my head in Reas' lap, or in his armpit.  Whoa! that doesn't sound pleasant, but his deodorant works pretty good actually.  Speaking of deodorant, when Reas was on his mission and I was in one of those moods where I was missing him so much it actually hurt, I could literally smell his deodorant...from Bolivia.  Anyway, I'm not out to talk about deodorant.  I'm seeking sympathy.  The problem is that on this lovely Friday night there is no movie, no icecream, no lap, no armpit.  Not even a trace of a husband.  Reas fell asleep before the kids were even in bed.  He konked out while we were reading scriptures before bedtime.  He had dozed off even before his first turn to read.  Maggie woke him up, but by the second go around he was out cold.  It was no use.  We left him on the couch, I put the kids to bed, and then came down to wander aimlessly...all alone.  You know where I ended up?  Well here, obviously.  But before that?  I was reading my old blog posts for fun.  THAT is how pathetic I am.  I actually found myself laughing out loud at myself.  I'm a nerd...a lonely one, remember.  I'm not the least bit annoyed at Reas for sleeping.  He's just about worked himself into the ground.  He's working 55 hours a week AND going to grad school AND doing homework AND being ward mission leader at church AND being a dad and husband.  Tonight he was playing SkipBo with Ty and it kind of just made me want to cry for him.  He was SO tired.  Like he looked like he could've used someone to hold up his eyelids.  But he kept on playing 'cause that's what Ty needed.  Now that I think about it, he did the dinner dishes too because that's what I needed.  And he fixed Cosmo's hamster cage because that's what Maggie needed.  And he cuddled and played with Claire and Lily because that's what they needed.  When does he do what he needs?

I don't need sympathy.  I need to get my bootie in gear and decide how we're going to thank him.  Tomorrow's going to be awesome...

I'm pretty sure Vegas schools are the last on the planet to start school.  It seems everyone else has been back for at least a week or two, and my school-loving offspring have been jealous.  I can't figure it out - in so many ways Maggie and Ty are both pretty shy and hesitant about doing new things.  But when it comes to starting a new school year, they're both out the door and running without looking back.  I'm not complaining, just confused.  Although, I'll admit it might be a little nice if one of them clung to my hand for just a second before sprinting away.  Really, was home THAT boring over the Summer??

Either way, I'm so happy for them and glad they're excited about another year.














              
We have about 5 colors to choose from to wear at this school, but they both thought it would be so cool if they were matching for the first day.  Can I say how happy it makes me that in 4th grade Maggie still thinks it's cool to dress like her 1st grade brother??




Maggie meeting up with her girls.


                            

This little moment before they each went their separate ways almost brought tears to my eyes.                                                                   


Boy, I love these kiddos.  Hope it's a great one, guys!

Today I spent 9 hours in the car with 4 kids and my sweet grammy.  Great company no doubt, but it would have been nice to have seen Reas for more than 10 minutes at 5:30 in the morning.  It's our anniversary - 10th anniversary...that's kind of a big deal.  I think we're an officially semi-old experienced married couple now.  I'm pretty sure at 10 years we deserve to be bumped up a notch.  Since we weren't together all day (and won't be for a few more days), and since I had lots of time to think in the car about the perfect romantic blog post, you'd think I'd be able to whip this baby out in no time at all.  I'm pretty efficient at writing about nothing, but when it comes to substance I don't always feel like I have what it takes.  I tried to write him a poem, but I couldn't bring myself to hit "publish"...it was way too cheezy.  Maybe someday I'll post it for a really good joke.

I'm not really a mushy and sappy kind of girl.  I like flowers and I like kissing my husband, but I don't think that makes me mushy and sappy.  That just makes me a girl.  So what I'm saying is that putting into words what I feel inside for my best friend, husband, and father of my children isn't easy for me.  What I do know and what I can write, is that he is absolutely everything to me.  And even saying that now doesn't sound like enough.  His joy is my joy.  I cry when I see him hurting.  He completes me. He brings clear thinking and a rational mind when I need it most. He  teaches our children.  He loves them, he loves me.  He is dedicated to our family, loves the Lord, and dutifully provides for us giving us all that we need and more.  I knew I loved him when I married him, but really I had no idea who that man was to become.

Thanks babe, for the best 10 years of my life.  Can't wait for more.

Snack time is driving me CRAZY!!!!!!  Having the kids home all day, day after day is great except for the ghastly amount of time I am spending in the kitchen.  Today I had had it.  Usually I ask what everyone wants for a snack, but I'm tired of them not wanting anything I suggest.  This morning as I was throwing things out on the table and saying to myself, "They're going to EAT it and they're going to LIKE it.  And no one better complain.  grumble grumble,"  I began to feel inspired by the colors, the textures, and the geometric detail of each type of food.  No, I haven't been watching Design Star.  WHAT in the world would make you think that?

And at that moment,  SNACKTIME DESIGN STAR was born.



Each contestant would be judged individually on their execution of a snacky design inspired by a particular food item placed before them.  Ok, not really.   The only rule:  you have to eat whatever you create.   So um... you might not want to glue chocolate chips to your carrot sticks with peanut butter.  Or maybe you do. Whatever.  You just have to eat it and pretend to like it.

They did find some interesting combinations of food that we've never thought of before, and they said it was good.

carrots dipped in P.B.
pretzels dipped in ranch
P.B covered pretzels covered in grape nuts
chocolate chips in Ranch (gag me)

Maggie's design (a girl in curls and freckles):




Ty's design (a half eaten alien):



Claire's design (a peanut butter snowman,which I found completely adorable):



These happy cuties were entertained for like an hour!  And the best part...I just overheard Ty say, "I can't eat anything else or I'm gonna blow up!"  My hope precisely.  Er.  Not to blow up my children, but to stuff them so full of goodness that I decide when it's time to eat.  Not them.

Who says you can't learn anything good from T.V.??

I've been reminded that Summer and blogging don't mesh.  There's way too much blogging material and not enough time to post.  Here's my attempt to quickly catch up on our fun. Recently, the kids and I spent 10 days in CA with my parents, lots of cousins, and aunts and uncles.  I hardly saw my stinky dust covered children due to the fact that there are acres and acres of open land to roam free on.  The kids LOVED every second of it.  I love it when they get the chance to be kids who aren't locked in by busy streets, propety lines, walls, and strangers.

Grandma snuggles.


Ty was in heaven with all these boy cousins. They were only slightly posing here.



5 out of the 6 grandkids born while my parents were on their mission to Argentina.  Tessa, Nate, Claire, Lauren, and Abby.  Matthew wasn't there that day.  They're all 3 and 4 years old now! Ay caramba, where'd the time go?



Filling up Grandma's kitchen with fun and messes. 



My dad organized races down his dirt road, even for me and my sisters...I lost.  Glad there aren't pictures of that one.  I grew up on this dusty road from the time I was 11.  I've taken hundreds of walks with my mom right here.  I love it that the kids get to experience it as well.



Great Grammy and some of her cuties






Usually when it's time to pack up and head home there are lots of tears, but not this time.  We got to bring two of our neices home with us!  These girls are the best.  We had such a great time with them.  My kids adore them and I must say the extra help around the house was divine.  We showed them some of our favorite spots.




 



We're looking forward to lots more summer adventures in the next few weeks.  Next on our list - a week in Yellowstone (cool temperatures...yesssss!)

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